One of the biggest pieces of advice in Magic Of Making Up is not to behave irrationally after getting dumped.

As hard as this may sound unless you temper your emotions to a certain extent then you’re just “tightening the noose around your neck” and killing off any chances of a reconciliation sometime down the track.

So by agreeing to the break up and walking away you’ve solidified the ground underneath you and can now begin the rift healing process. But how do you know your ex still has strong feelings for you?

Well, Magic Of Making Up outlines some sure signs that there are strong feelings for you on the part of your ex but you have to be aware there is a thin line between hope and false hope. And too many spurned lovers act on false hope.

Why Your Ex Still Has Strong Feelings For You?

There are definite signs your ex wants you back but you've got to be able to decipher between false and realistic hope otherwise, you'll end up "with egg on your face" and further away from a reconciliation than ever before.

T W Jackson covers the signs you can recognize that your ex really does have feelings for you in The Magic Of Making Up and we'll take a look at some of them in this article.

It all depends how you react to these signs and that's for another article but right now, let's take a look at some solid signs your ex still has strong feelings for you buried deep within their psyche.

Does Your Ex Still Have Strong Feelings For You?

1.Anytime your name is brought up in conversation and your ex reacts is usually a good sign although outwardly, it may not seem positive. If you did, it would be more along the lines of an uncaring reaction.

2. Watch for signs your ex is trying to make you jealous. So why would your ex want to make you jealous. Hey, the game of love sometimes makes no sense but you need to look at this as a positive. Again, if your ex is about to walk up the altar with someone else then also take this as a strong indication your relationship is really over.

3. Playing the game of ignoring you. So in summing up, look for signs of emotion from from ex whenever you're mentioned in discussions. If there are no emotions then this is not a good sign.

Looking for positive signs is one thing but learning how to go about getting this feedback is crucial. Magic Of Making Up warns against stepping on the wrong land mines on your way back into the arms of your ex.