Do You Still Want Your Ex Back?

When heterosexual or bisexual couples head for divorce, the prospect of sleeping with the other partner is as remote as sprouting wings. Just the sight of the other partner can bring on fits of rage and distaste. This is the case for those who really want out of a stifling relationship. If the reverse is true, you will still fantasize about having sex with your soon-to-be ex.

You can't let go but your pride won't allow you to beg the other to stay or hit the sack - just one for the road. You take another sip from the hip flasks, a hurful reminder of the romance that was.

The engraved inscriptions of love ridicule you. Yet still you prefer to hold on to the memories of the fun times you shared, especially when you shopped for cheap groomsmen gifts. You playfully bickered over the stainless steel flask because you wanted the round one and your mate preferred the flask in a leather belt bouch for the groomsmen.

You know you want your ex back right that minute. But there's nothing you can do but bide your time for your ex's return. But if the opportunity arises, would you dream of having a one-night stand with your ex?

The Way Around

If you just got out of dreadful marriage you will never entertain the idea of bedding your ex now and forever. But when after several years you bump into her or him in a bar, looking gorgeous and extremely sexy, would that change your resolve?

Sleeping with an ex may or may not restore the feelings you have had for each other. If you think that this would revive old passions, think again. Once you're back together again for good, old habits will reemerge and fierce fighting will explode to disillusion both of you. But for the record, the reunion may help you realize what you have lost or what you have gotten rid of.

The perils of sleeping with an ex are not worth it when you have remarried or committed to someone else. If you are found out, you'll lose all the efforts you have done to make your emotional life better with a new love. Or, if your ex-partner has remarried, the threat of being found out can wreck the second chance for his or her happiness. Knowing all these, is it still worth the trouble and thrill to sleep with your ex?